Is it just me, or does it seem that Christmas this year has come far too quickly? Perhaps it is just a sign of aging, but it does seem that the years are passing more quickly than before, and especially the days leading up to the time of celebrating
Christmas. I've heard many say that this year Christmas has seemed to be on a runaway train!
Throughout the year, as we are blessed, encouraged and enriched
by the friendship and fellowship of those in our lives, at Christmastime it is a good time to share that appreciation for others.
In search of the perfect gift for the loved one you treasure so
much, it seems each year the hustle and
bustle increase with pressure to find that perfect gift for each one in our lives that we treasure.
This season of giving and getting continues unabated because
there are so many in our lives that we love and appreciate, but may not take
the time throughout the year to stop and tell them how much they mean to our
lives.
So Christmas becomes the time and season to do that.
While Christmas is a blessed time for many, there are others
whose Christmas is full of unfulfilled expectations. Perhaps it is
- the child who does not receive the toy he really wanted,
- the parents whose children did not make it home to spend Christmas with them,
- the family who has lost a loved one, and whose missing spot at Christmas hurts deeply.
The season that strives to be the happiest season of the
year, for many becomes a spot of deep pain and hurt that no amount of cheerful
Christmas music, frivolity, chocolate or expensive gift can abate.
There has been much loss this Christmas season in our local community, and even in my circle of friends. A precious family has lost a home-schooling mother of 7 to to cancer at the young age of 60 with a child still at home. In our community there are families who will grieve this
Christmas. There were two fathers taken too soon within the last few weeks in separate car accidents, and one family who lost a father and child in the same accident. The emptiness of their presence at Christmas will be a
difficult burden to bear.
There is much suffering and sadness that seem to build
around the Christmas season.
We know that the true meaning of Christmas
came with a form of suffering
and centered around sacrificial giving,
not about taking and getting,
but about giving all.
The birth of Jesus came in this way:
Who hath believed our report?
and to whom is the arm of the LORD revealed?
For he shall grow up before him as a tender plant,
and as a root out of a dry ground:
he hath no form nor comeliness;
and when we shall see him,
there is no beauty that we should desire him.
Isaiah 53:1-2
There was nothing comely about our Lord, or His birth.
He came to show us the greatest meaning of love in its
purest form
as a baby wrapped in swaddling clothes and laid in a manger.
Love came, not wrapped in bright pretty
packages
with bows and tinsel,
but a lowly manger was the wrapping paper on this gift of
love.
As we seek today to embrace and remember that
Gift of Love
given to us 2000+ years ago,
I think the answer to finding the true meaning of
that great Gift of Love comes
by extending that gift to others in our lives,
not
just with the perfect material gift
but in a deeper way.
Jesus became the Word of God wrapped in flesh as John 1:1 says.
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God,
and the Word was God. “
Words are a very powerful tool used by God himself to show Himself to the world.
As the Word was made flesh in the form of a babe, and laid
in a manger,
we realize that the ultimate gift of love came through the Word of
God.
By the Word of God this world was brought into existence.
And it was by the Word
of God that we get to behold Jesus in the flesh.
The Word of God is a powerful force in our lives, and as we read the Word,
we unlock the glory of the knowledge of who Jesus is, and
what He has meant to our lives.
Words remain a very powerful tool to convey to others the thoughts
in our heart.
Words don’t always come easily to our mouths. Many times the
words we want to say lay buried deep in our hearts, unable to be expressed.
But God showed us His word by speaking it, and putting it
into action, and also by writing it. We have HIS WRITTEN WORD with us as a reminder
that while we may not see Him, we may not touch Him, we can read His WORD that was written for us.
It would be fitting in this season of remembering
when the Word was made flesh
to take this opportunity to share with someone
just how
much we love them and share the gift of His love
through the power of the written word.
Perhaps as you read this, you will find a piece of paper to write on.
Write a heartfelt message to someone in your life who needs to hear the words in your heart that have had a hard time finding their way out of your lips.
Write a heartfelt message to someone in your life who needs to hear the words in your heart that have had a hard time finding their way out of your lips.
Sometimes it is easier to express on paper
than through a conversation just how much someone means to you.
- Perhaps there has been a difficult relationship that you are struggling with,
- or a friend who has gone above and beyond to bless you,
- or maybe its someone who has spoken a kind word to you in a difficult season;
- or perhaps it is a spouse, child or parent who you wish to share with them just how much they mean to you.
Take this opportunity to put a few words on paper to let
this person know just how much they mean to you. Share with them a special memory, a
scripture, or a reason that you love them so. This could be the greatest
Christmas gift they receive, a gift written for them to pick up, read, and
enjoy for many years to come. It is the power of the written word!
Write your thoughts on a pretty piece of paper,
roll it up, and tie it with a pretty bow,
|
and share this present from your heart |
This is a gift that will keep on giving, year after year.
The greatest gift that LOVE brought
to us was the WORD of God made flesh. We
have His written word today to read over and over and over to remind us of how
great that Love is.
The power of the written word remains a gift that keeps on giving from year to year.
May all of you have a blessed and very special Christmas
season
as we celebrate the greatest gift to mankind,
the WORD made flesh and
dwelling among us,
in us,
through us,
with us,
and written for us!
Marilyn, you have definitely touched my heart and my soul with this beautiful post. There is so much TRUTH here that I'm not even going to try to comment on individual aspects except to say that I personally know several who are struggling with merry making this Christmas. They are all Christians who are celebrating Jesus and his birth, but are still struggling because of loss and imminent death.
ReplyDeleteI'm going to read and re-read this throughout the next few days and absorb your beautiful wisdom my friend.
Blessings and love,
Betsy
Thank you Betsy... I appreciate your kind words so very much! So many people are hurting, and the holidays really compound the hurt for them. May the sweet blessings of the Lord be with you in the coming year!
DeleteGood thoughts. Thanks. May you have a blessed Christmas season too.
ReplyDeleteThank you Aritha! It was a blessed Christmas, and I pray the New Year brings abundant blessings from the Lord into your life :)
DeleteSuch a beautiful and inspiring post, thank you!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your visit, and I pray the New Year is a blessed one for you!
DeleteChristmas season can be a difficult time for many people, because of loss of loved ones or other reasons which made this time of year a sad experience. Peace to all.
ReplyDeleteYes, the holiday season is tough for so many people. It is good to remember and encourage those around us who are struggling! Blessings to you sweet friend! Happy New Year!
DeleteThank you, such a thoughtful post.
ReplyDeleteBlessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteAmen! And beautiful photos to illustrate.
ReplyDeleteThank you Vee! Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteLovely words and thoughts. There are many whose hearts are aching this Christmas.
ReplyDeleteYes, the holidays are tough for so many. Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteWhat a wonderful, thought-provoking post. Your photos are great as always. Blessings and happiness to you and your family this Christmas. xo Diana
ReplyDeleteThank you Diana! Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteAmen to all of this. The Lord God came as a baby and lived as a human so He could know all of our suffering. He is a living God who understands what we're going through, who grieves when we grieve. What a beautiful post. Merry Christmas to you and your family!
ReplyDeleteSo thankful He understands and knows Cindy, thank you for your kind words! Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteThank you for sharing the Truth. May we Truth bearers be able to share His love with others. So many are hurting and Jesus is the Great Healer.
ReplyDeleteHave a lovely Christmas and a wonderful 2020 ~ FlowerLady
Thank you for your kind words! Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteMarilyn, you have composed a most meaningful reflection here about the true meaning of Christmas. It is all about love, the love God has for us in Jesus, and the love we can share with others. Truly, love is the greatest gift we can give!
ReplyDeleteMay His love surround you and yours this Christmas, and bless you richly!
Thank you Martha, truly it is all about His great sacrificial love to us. Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteSo simple and so thoughtful... words on paper to express appreciation.
ReplyDelete๐ Merry Christmas ๐
Thank you for your kind words! Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteAnd Christmas blessings to you, to yours, friend!
ReplyDeleteBlessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteBeautiful thoughts and prayers put into WORDS Marilyn! Yes.. .words can be such a gift to someone who may just need those words. Christmas is hard for me this year.. two losses...... and I know my Lord suffers right along with me! I hope all is well there in your beautiful piece of Heaven.... and that you have a wonderful loving Christmas with your friends and family. When I send out Christmas cards, that is the time of year I try to put into words what that person means to me. That's why I love sending cards so much! Blessings to you and yours... and thank you for this beautiful post. xoxoxo Marilyn
ReplyDeleteI know it has been a hard year for you Marilyn! It is comforting to know He understands our grief and sorrows. We had a wonderful Christmas here, and making cards is a wonderful way to share with friends and family how much they mean to us. Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteThank you my friend so much for the wonderful time & idea. I love you and appreciate that God gave me such a wonderful friend. :)
ReplyDeleteI'm so very blessed by your friendship too! What a blessing it has been getting to know you, pray with you, and fellowship in the Lord with you! Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteDear Sweet Marilyn, Halajuah and Amen!!!
ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas and God Bless You.
Connie
Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life! Continuing in prayer for you both, that there will be a victorious report of healing!
DeleteWhat a beautiful post, and a tremendous idea...We need to tell others how much we appreciate them, not just at Christmas, but all year long as we are able. Thank you for this reminder. I fear that I have not done this enough, and it is time to do that while there is time. My heart goes out to those families who will still have such fresh grief in there lives this Christmas. We lost our son to cancer about 5 1/2 years ago, and I've had him on my heart so much this Christmas, but even more his son who is now 20, and has lived his most fragile teenage years without his dear father, and our son's wife, a widow for these years as well. It is difficult enough for us, his parents, but even more so for them, who miss his constant presence in their lives so much more. That has been on my heart...and it is difficult to put it into appropriate words for their sakes. Praying about that. Thank you for making this a special thought to share...God bless you and may you and yours have a blessed and wonderful Christmas time.
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine how hard it is to go through the loss of a child Pamela, but you have done it gracefully, and truly have continued on with your faith in Jesus. I know it must be such a difficult thing to walk through, and then so hard for your son's family, especially in the holiday season. It is indeed, so tough to put into words, and how to express that. I will pray the Lord touches their lives in a special way, and I do pray that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life too!
DeleteOh Marilyn that last photograph is just beautiful, and this was such a wonderful post to read. Simply perfect for this most special time of year, and plenty to think about.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless You.
My good wishes to you and yours, hope you have a wonderful Christmas-time.
All the best Jan
Thank you Jan, you always bless my heart with your comments! Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteOh, my, this was a precious post so full of wisdom and wonderful truth! I kept thinking as I was reading it how YOU do these very things and are so faithful to fulfill God's calling on your life and reach out in such love and kindness. You are such a precious, shining example of Jesus' love, and I am so very thankful for you, your friendship, your prayers, and your walk with God. Sending much love to you this Christmas season, dear friend!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your kind words Cheryl, such a dear precious friend you are to me! Many blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteA beautiful and wise post, my friend. I stand in agreement with Cheryl. You exemplify God's love in all you do. So glad to call you friend, as well as my sister in Christ. Hugs and Christmas blessings to you and your sweet family. Nancy
ReplyDeleteI'm thankful for your friendship too Nancy, such a blessing to me! I am praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life and many more exciting adventures :)
DeleteBeautiful post, Marilyn. A wonderful way to encourage us to share with those around us. God bless your Christmas and new year with growing closer to our Lord and Savior. Merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind words! Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteA beautiful heartfelt post ringing with many precious thoughts on Christmas. May your Christmas be a beautiful one as you reflect upon Jesus' love and His amazing grace, the most precious gift of all, really. May you and your loved have a blessed Christmastime, dear Marilyn.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your kind words! Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteDear Marilyn, thank you for this special post.
ReplyDeleteMy best friend, a homeschool mom, 46 years old was diagnosed with a very aggressive cancer.She will have a mastectomy and hysterectomy, chemo and radiation if needed in the next month.We homeschooled our boys .. her boys are my boys are the best of friends. We have done so much together with the homeschool group, family parties and more. I appreciated your post, she is on my heart this Christmas season.
Love, Carla
Oh that's heartbreaking to hear Carla! I can't even imagine. I will be praying for your dear friend, that the Lord will touch her, and help her through all that she has to face with that diagnosis. Our God is able to heal her, and I will be praying! Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteMerry Christmas!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you! Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteMerry Christmas and Happy New Year to you. What a wonderful idea of writing something special to someone that we love. Thank you for reminding us that Christ is what Christmas is all about. It is beautifully written.
ReplyDeleteThank you Kelly for your kind words! I've missed you, and glad to see you are blogging again, I will be over to visit in the next day or two :) Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteBeautiful post, Marilyn! You are so right. I personally know of two families dealing with incredibly difficult things right now. And I know several dear ladies who were widowed this year, one of them just in the past month.
ReplyDeleteI love your idea of writing your thoughts to someone you appreciate and giving them as a gift. I need to ponder who in my life should be the recipient of such a gift. Thanks for sharing your heart.
So much hurt and sadness around us! Words are a powerful gift we can share, and I will pray the Lord lays just the right words on your heart to share. Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteI know I am late (as usual) getting to my blog reading. Marilyn...this is such a precious post. It is true...I admit how easy it is to get caught up in the season with all of the lights and festivities and not thinking about those who are going through rough times, even a tragedy. Thank you for bringing this to the forefront and sharing your beautiful heart. I pray that you and your family did enjoy a wonderful Christmas and may God richly bless you in 2020! xoxo
ReplyDeleteWe did have a wonderful Christmas Debby, and I pray you did too! I will be over to visit your blog in the next day or two. Thank you for your kind words. Blessings to you sweet friend, and praying that the New Year ushers in abundant blessings of the Lord into your life!
DeleteReally a wonderful post!Although I haven't seen it before,I wrote pretty cards with Bible verses to my parents,my sons and hubby at Christmas.It was so especial...Love,Maristella.
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